One Never get tired of what one Love!
As kids, we don’t really know what we love or dislike. But we all want to laugh, smile, and be with people and do things that make us feel good and happy. As we experience more, we begin to develop likes and dislikes, which help shape who we are as individuals.
Today, as I
reflected on my younger days, I realized that playing squash and spending all
day with friends never tired me out. But reading a book for an hour felt like
an eternity—same with praying or other activities. I've also learned that we
can change or learn to love something over time if we stick with it long
enough, like walking, running, or exercising. The environment certainly helps,
but what we tell ourselves can make or break us.
Everything we
do is driven by a feeling, and that feeling stems from our self-talk. Are we
motivating and inspiring ourselves? If yes, then sooner or later, we can learn
to love what we do. If our self-talk is negative, over time, we won’t enjoy
ourselves, and we’ll feel uncomfortable, annoyed, or unfulfilled. We might
start looking outward for temporary relief—by buying something, visiting a new
place, or eating at nice restaurants. But we’ll eventually return to the same
state because the problem isn’t external; it’s internal.
Until we truly
understand ourselves and what we want, we can’t find the peace or happiness we
seek. I never get tired of working out, running, or playing squash, nor do I
get burned out at work. But there was a time in my life when I was unhappy and
depressed, doing things I didn’t love. I pushed myself every day just to
survive, to pay bills. The pressure was so intense that I stopped truly living,
and time seemed to pass without meaning. Nothing changed until I did. I took a
proactive approach, changed my environment, sought out mentors and guidance,
worked hard, and stayed patient—even in difficult and negative situations. And
things changed dramatically for me.
So, my advice
to everyone is to get to know yourself. Find your true passion and keep
searching for it. We always find what we’re looking for :)
Love you all!
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